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5 Steps To Cure The “What Will People Think” Syndrome

what will people thinkYou watch an invigorating dance performance on YouTube and feel your heart race and blood sing in your veins. Your love for dance has once again been roused. The image of you enthralling an auditorium full of people with your outstanding dance performance flashes through your mind – A dream you had nursed throughout your teens and 20’s. You close the door to your room, put on some music with fast beats and dance energetically in the safety of your room. You almost make up your mind that you are going to enroll for a dance class and perform to an audience sometime soon. But as the night passes and the new day breaks, you remind yourself that you have to be “practical”…

You consider yourself overweight. You are convinced that your family, friends and even strangers would laugh at you. You imagine the looks of ridicule on their faces when they get to know about your dream to dance. The decision is easy – “People see me as a responsible father, husband and professional. What would they think if they found out that I was training for dance and planning to perform in public?” And another dream is sacrificed at the altar of “What will people think”.

In my work with people, I have lost count of the number of times I have heard them say that they suppressed their needs & desires or gave up on their dreams, wishes, and hopes for a better life, because they were worried about what people would think. These wishes and dreams varied from wanting to cut their hair short or allowing themselves a weekend trip, to dreaming of starting an enterprise or wanting to walk away from an abusive relationship. I strongly suspect  that “What will people think” syndrome is the single biggest killer of hopes, possibilities and dreams. what will people think syndrome

What’s Behind The Fear?

If you have had this syndrome or still do, it just shows that you are human. This is driven by our evolutionary history. Thousands of years ago when humans were hunters and gatherers, avoiding disapproval from others was important for our survival. And of course we have been further conditioned by our families and schools to see others’ approval as the gauge of our worthiness. But then how does one overcome this fear?

Some Ways To Beat The “What Will People Think Syndrome”

1. Remember, people really don’t think or care that much about you
We humans are too busy obsessing about our own lives and spend very little time thinking about others. Even when we do think about others, it is in the context of how that impacts “me”, otherwise those thoughts are momentary. If you are not convinced, consider this – how much time of your day do you spend thinking about others’ (people who you are not close to) choices about their lives, particularly what may be deemed as stupid or poor choices? 5 hours? 2 hours? Half an hour? 2 minutes? 30 seconds? I am guessing it is more like the last figure. See what I mean? And here you are trying to conform to what you assume is others’ expectation of you, just so that for those few flashing moments people may approve of you (in your imagination). When you conform to imaginary rules so as to not attract disapproval, the only thing you manage to do is live a life of insignificance and make yourself invisible. On the other hand living by your own priorities and needs makes life more meaningful and engaging.

2. Stop judging and gossiping
We have a tendency to second guess other people’s reaction based on our own. Hence if you are in the habit of making judgmental, insensitive comments about others and are easily given to reveling in juicy pieces of gossip, it’s only natural for you to worry about others’ judging you the same way. So when you make it a practice to think compassionately about others, your worry about others’ judgment also diminishes.

3. Be accepting and kind to yourself
The people who fear judgment the most are the ones who judge THEMSELVES very harshly. When you are disapproving of yourself, then it is only natural for your mind to look for approval from others. That’s the only way to survive. I recently heard a well known actress admit during an interview that she used to constantly worry about her acne and imagined that when people spoke to her they only saw her acne. And she then went on to do her first movie while the acne still existed and she was amazed at how no one seemed to care about her acne. When we judge ourselves harshly we are constantly looking for cues for others’ disapproval and find it even where there is none. So spare yourself the torture by being kind and accepting of yourself.

4. Protect your dreams from harm
Many times it is our very own families and loved ones that plant the fear about other people’s opinions. They are just projecting their own insecurities on to you. Hence when you have ideas that you want to try out and suspect that your immediate family may not be thrilled about the idea, don’t share it with them till you have a clearer plan about how you want to take it forward. But do share it with one or two people who you know would support and encourage you. Your dream is like a seed. Once planted you need to water and nurture it and protect it from weeds and pests. Once the sapling grows into a strong plant and then a tree, it can withstand the strong sun and the storms. Same applies to your ideas and dreams.

5. Feel the fear and do it anyway
Rather than trying to avoid fear altogether, focus on taking action even when you feel worried or scared about other people’s reactions. Two things happen. One, you will realise that your anticipation of how others would react is either unfounded or exaggerated. Secondly you will feel more confident about the direction you want to move in, once you take the first few steps, rather than feeling confused and stuck.

Conclusion

You owe it to yourself to give yourself a chance and live a life that is genuinely joyful and meaningful. Your values and desires exist for a reason. Get out there and experiment with life, allow yourself to perspire, attract some unfavourable attention, fail a few times, laugh at yourself, get your hands dirty, stain your clothes; use up all those ideas, talents and gifts that you came to this earth with, because the best gift you can give this world is to be truly yourself!

We hope this article helps you overcome the “What will people think” syndrome. Do let us know your thoughts in the comments below. For more from our Emotional Wellness Expert Divya Thampi, check out Healthy Reads or tune in to her LIVE sessions on GOQii Play. Subscribe now! 

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Carbo-Loading: All You Need To Know!

Carbo LoadingAt some point or the other, we have come across the term Carbo-Loading. While there are some people who know what it is, there are people who are unaware about this helpful hack. Carbo-Loading is the process of ‘loading’ your body’s muscles with excess glycogen. Glycogen is the energy source derived from eating carbohydrates and Carbo-Loading when done well, can lead to improvement in performance of endurance athletes.

What is Carbo-Loading?

In detail, Carbo-Loading means eating excess carbohydrates to fill the muscles with glycogen while also lowering your activity levels 3-4 days before the event.

Glycogen is the fuel which powers our body when we exercise. The carbohydrates that we eat are broken down to make glycogen, which is stored in the muscles to provide energy while exercising. The main aim of Carbo-Loading is to ensure that muscles have larger energy stores so that they don’t tire easily. Just like a car with a full tank would run longer, similarly, glycogen loaded muscles will perform longer.

Who needs Carbo-Loading?

Carbo-Loading helps athletes who compete in endurance events such as running over 10 kms, triathlons, treks, etc. Since the body already has enough glycogen stored in the muscles, it can perform short exercises with like weight training or jogging at sustained energy levels. It is the endurance runs which makes us use all our resources. This is where the extra glycogen can help to avoid cramps, prevent fatigue and keep one going till the finish line.

How to Carbo-Load?

Now this is the most important part. If done correctly, you will surely reap the benefits. If done incorrectly, it won’t help you much. It may even lead to feeling heavy before the marathon and even vomiting. You usually start 3-4 days before the event. It is recommended to start with 5 gm carbohydrates per kg body weight. You can increase it to 7-8 gm from your second attempt at Carbo-Loading.

4 Days Before the Event: You are eat the same number of calories as before but 60-70% of it should come from carbohydrates. Mostly complex carbs.

3 & 2 Days Before the Event: Eat more of simple carbs. They will provide instant energy! It is important to avoid processed forms of these simple carbs (like biscuits, rusk).

1 Day Before the Event: Almost all the carbohydrate calories should come from simple carbs one day before the event. Your last dinner before the event should be at least 12 hours prior to the race. The dinner should be heavy, made entirely of simple carbs, with little fats and proteins.

Before the Event: 2-3 hours before the event, eat a light and easy simple carb snack and also keep it for eating during the race.

Some Simple Carbs: Banana, milk, curd, honey, white bread, white rice, potato

Some Complex Carbs: Chapati, pulses, brown rice, sweet potato, green leafy vegetables, apples

Few Tips to Remember During Carbo-Loading

  • As it involves eating a high carb diet, people with diabetes and other medical problems which restrict the consumption of carbohydrates should consult their doctors before starting
  • Perform only light exercise when starting Carbo-Loading and rest the entire day before the event
  • Avoid adding new foods to your routine
  • Avoid eating fiber rich foods as they will give a feeling of satiety
  • Eat a moderate amount of fats and proteins
  • On all days of Carbo-Loading, eat 5-6 meals instead of eating only three to avoid a feeling of heaviness
  • After the event, have a carb-only meal to replenish the glycogen stores
  • Eat some salty snacks after the event (preferably salted nuts)
  • Drink lots of water during and after Carbo-Loading

Effects of Carbo-Loading

  • You will see a slight weight gain but it will only be due to the body retaining excess water. This weight will be gone in 1-2 days after the event
  • Expect a little stomach discomfort in this phase. It will not bother you much if you divide the total calories into 5-6 meals for the day

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5 Simple Yoga Asanas To Strengthen Lungs

Simple Yoga Asanas

Lungs are the most important organs of the body as it involves the breathing process. Proper functioning of the lungs is critical for all the other body parts to function well. Recent global health challenges, exemplified by the impact of respiratory infections like COVID-19, SARI, and ILI, underscore the critical importance of pulmonary health. Though we all know Pranayamas are controlled breathing or breathing exercises in Yoga, actual control of breathing starts with Yoga Asanas or the postures. Each Asana has its own breathing pattern. Breath or Prana is the primary source of energy or the force that keeps us alive. So, it is important to keep our lungs healthy and strong. Practising simple yoga asanas can have huge benefits on our lungs and overall health. Here are 5 simple Yoga Asanas which can strengthen our lungs with other benefits.

Simple Yoga Asanas To Strengthen Lungs 

1. Tadasana (Mountain Pose)
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This posture fills the lungs with plenty of fresh air as we inhale, expanding the rib cage and abdomen. All the alveoli in the lungs are filled with extra oxygen, enhancing the lungs’ performance.

Method:

  • Stand straight with both feet 2 inches apart
  • Inhale deep and raise both arms over the head, interlocking fingers with palms facing up
  • Lift both the heels slowly, raising your entire body upward
  • Balance your entire body on your toes
  • Hold the position for few seconds while inhaling and exhaling normally
  • Slowly exhale while lowering the hands and heels down
  • Return to the rest position

2. Trikonasana (Triangle Pose)
This asana opens up the chest cavity, allowing the airways to open for the lungs to receive air easily.

Method:

  • From a standing straight position, spread your legs apart for 3-4 feet
  • Turn the right foot out 90 degrees toward the right
  • Turn the left foot about 30 degrees inwards to the right
  • Inhale and raise both the arms up on the sides, keeping the shoulders relaxed
  • Exhale and slowly bend your body to the right side
  • Try to touch your right foot with your right hand until the body is parallel to the ground and spine is straight
  • Slowly lift the left arm upward in line with the right arm
  • Hold this position for a few seconds while looking up toward the tip of the left hand
  • Slowly inhale and raise up your body. Exhale and bring down the arms on your sides
  • Repeat the same on the other side now

3. Ardha Matsyendrasana (Half Fish Pose)
This posture expands the chest and lungs on both sides

Method:

  • Sit on the floor with the legs stretched in front, feet together
  • Bend the right knee and keep the right foot with the sole up
  • Sit on the right heel so that the left side of the sitting fits on the arch of the right sole
  • Take the left foot over the right side of the right knee
  • Keep the left foot flat on the floor
  • Relax the shoulder and straighten up the spine
  • Place the right arm on the outside of the left knee with hand facing up
  • Inhale while lifting the rib and exhale while slowly twisting the spine towards the left
  • Keep the right palm flat on the back of your right foot
  • Turn your head towards the back from left side
  • Maintain the pose for few seconds
  • Slowly exhale and get back to the sitting position
  • Repeat the same on the other side

4. Bhujangasana (Cobra Pose)
Though there are many benefits through this pose, it expands the chest and lungs to improve the lung capacity

Method:

  • Lie down with face down and feet together
  • Forehead should be touching the ground
  • Place both palms on the side of your shoulders
  • Elbows are close to the body
  • Inhale and tighten the hip and the tailbone
  • As you exhale, draw the shoulders back, lifting the upper body
  • Back and abdominal muscles are stretched
  • Look straight or towards the ceiling as much as you are comfortable
  • Hold the position for few seconds
  • Exhale and return to the face down lying position

5. Shashankasana (Rabbit Pose)
simple yoga asanasThis is one among the easy poses that is suitable for everyone. This is also called as child pose or Baalasana. It improves the lung capacity, expands the back part of the lungs, relieves upper and lower back issues and addresses spine issues

Method:

  • Sit in Vajrasana (Sitting on your feet with soles facing up and knees bent)
  • Inhale and slowly raise both the arms upwards straight above the head
  • Your abdomen and chest cavity are raised up with spine erect in this position
  • Now slowly exhale and bend forward with the spine erect
  • Let the abdomen rest on your knees
  • Hand stretched straight and rested on the floor above the head
  • Maintain this position for few seconds to few minutes while breathing normally
  • Inhale and raise your body and arms up
  • Get back to the Vajrasana position

All these Asanas have many other benefits on our health including increased flexibility, metabolism, toning the abdominal muscles and spinal health. People with back issues, neck issues, spine issues need to be cautious while doing any Yoga postures. It is always good to learn Yoga Asanas under good guidance. People having serious or chronic medical issues need to consult their doctors before doing Yoga.

We hope you try out these 5 simple Yoga Asanas to strengthen lungs and level up your health! For more articles on yoga, check out Healthy Reads or reach out to our certified experts by subscribing to GOQii’s Personalised Health Coaching here.

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What is Resting Heart Rate & How Can You Improve It?

Resting Heart Rate

If you want to know more about heart health, your Resting Heart Rate can tell you a lot! As we all know, our heart is responsible for providing blood and oxygen to each and every organ in the body and if there is any trouble in the heart, automatically the rest of the body will be impacted too.

What is Resting Heart Rate?

Resting heart rate (RHR) is known as your base or lowest heart rate. It can be defined as the number of times your heart beats per minute while you’re resting or not active. The normal resting heart rate reading should be in between 60 to 100 beats per minute (BPM). The term use for a heart rate below 60 bpm is called Bradycardia while a heart rate above 100 bpm is called Tachycardia. Usually, children tend to have a higher heart rate than adults. It is because of their faster metabolism. For a newborn, resting heart rate around 100 to 150 bpm is considered normal.

How Can You Measure It? 

Measuring heart rate is the same as checking your pulse. Currently, there are different ways to measure it – you can even measure it using your fitness tracker or band. You can also use the ancient method wherein, you place your index and middle finger on your wrist just below the thumb, or along either side of your neck, so you can feel your pulse. Remember not to use your thumb to take this measurement as it has its own pulse so you might not get the accurate measurement. Use a watch to count the number of beats for 30 seconds and double it so you will get the reading for per minute. Repeat it twice or thrice to make sure you get the accurate measurements. 

To get the proper readings, it is advised to check your resting heart rate as soon as you wake up before carrying out any other work or activity. 

Factors That Affect RHR 

Daily activities such as walking or drinking a cup of coffee, medications, hormones, body size, stress and activity level can change your resting heart rate. Some major factors include: 

  • Age
  • Lack of sleep
  • Dehydration
  • Stress
  • Obesity
  • Health conditions, lung disease and diabetes
  • Some medications like Beta blockers & calcium channels
  • Temperature
  • Exercise

Generally, lower heart rates are considered better as it shows your heart is working well with no extra effort. On the other side, a higher resting heart rate shows your heart has to work extra hard to pump blood.

Ways to Improve or Lower Heart Rate

  1. One of the reasons for increased RHR as one ages, is the lack of or less physical activity. As aging is a natural process, we can improve its impact on heart health by adding 30 minutes of walking or any other low impact exercise like cycling, swimming and dancing. Of course, your heart will beat fast during the activity and for a short time after that, but practicing it every day will automatically help in reducing your elevated resting heart rate.
  2. Guided breathing practices, yoga, tai chi, meditation, long walks and reading are all great ways to calm your mind and body, which will help in controlling your heart rate.
  3. Always try to get at least seven hours of sleep every night so your body gets sufficient time to recover from stress.
  4. Keeping yourself well hydrated helps blood flow through the body and makes the functioning of the heart easy as well. 
  5. Those who smoke have a higher RHR. Quitting brings it back down. 
  6. Keep a watch on body weight. The larger the body, the more the heart has to work to supply it with blood. Losing body weight helps in lowering elevated RHR.

It’s important to maintain an active lifestyle with regular aerobic exercise, a balanced diet, quality sleep and hydration. By measuring your resting heart rate regularly, you can see both your long-term progress and daily fluctuations in it. When your resting heart rate decreases as a result of training, it’s a sign that your cardiovascular health is improving.

We hope this article helps you make heart-healthy choices! Do let us know your thoughts in the comments below. For more on heart health, check out Healthy Reads or reach out to our certified experts by subscribing to GOQii’s Personalised Health Coaching here.

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