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December 6, 2025 By Sweta Jaiswal Leave a Comment

PCOS and Anxiety: Discover Relief with the 54321 Technique

PCOS and Anxiety: Discover Relief with the 54321 TechniqueA huge section, which is 70% of women and girls of reproductive age, remains undiagnosed in the primary (stage 1) care of PCOS globally. The recent WHO (World Health Organization) data suggests that 116 million women (3.4%) are affected globally. In India itself, the range is 3.7-22.5% of the female population. Though there is a rapid rise in cases, not much is given or taken in terms of awareness.

PCOS (Polycystic Ovary/Ovarian Syndrome) is the most prevalent female endocrine disorder and the preeminent cause of infertility. It is not only characterized by a cystic ovary but also by ovarian dysfunction and androgen excess. It is a combination of signs and symptoms related to an imbalance of hormones. This imbalance leads to hirsutism (hair growing in areas where men typically grow hair, e.g.- face, abdomen, chest, and back), balding, acne, and oily skin. Ovarian dysfunction looks like a complete absence of menstruation (amenorrhea) to menstruation delayed to 35 days or more (oligomenorrhea) to heavy bleeding (menorrhagia).

Due to all these dermatological, metabolic, and reproductive disturbances, PCOS affects the psychological and sleep areas in a woman’s life, leading to acute anxiety, depression, sleep apnea, disturbed sleep, and obesity. Women with PCOS are four times more likely to be at risk for depression compared with women without PCOS.

If you’ve been told you have PCOS, you may feel frustrated and sad as well, but then there will be relief that there are reasons and possible treatments for the symptoms that you have been having such a hard time dealing with— e.g., keeping a healthy weight, managing stress related to it, hirsutism, acne, or irregular periods. It can be difficult to have a diagnosis without an exact cure. However, it’s important for women with PCOS to know they are not alone.

Finding a support network and a healthcare provider who knows a lot about PCOS and is someone you feel comfortable talking with is very important. Even though the results may take a long time, it is important to keep working on a healthy lifestyle and not let PCOS get you down. Many PCOS sufferers claim that discussing their worries with a counsellor can be beneficial because it lowers their burden.

Along with diet and lifestyle modifications to maintain a healthy weight, the 54321 technique can really help battle the high levels of anxiety and depression in women facing PCOS. This technique is the best form of self-care for females who find it hard to focus on other important issues apart from the everyday mental struggles that PCOS offer.

PCOS and Anxiety: Discover Relief with the 54321 Technique

The 54321 technique is a fun and easy way to practice mindfulness. It is so much more than the counts of breathing which we use to calm anger and nervousness. It keeps the 5 senses in play like the eyes, nose, ears, skin and tongue. It is Simple, Practical and Therapeutic.

Let’s understand it. You need to Focus on –

  1. 5 things you see – From the 1000 things that you see, zero it down to five which relate well to your present situation and how it does wonders to the environment/surroundings.
  2. 4 things you can touch – Give priority to touches that give you comfort like massaging your ears, your water bottle, a plant, or a pen. Feel its texture, weight and shape.
  3. 3 things you Hear – This can be a challenge as you will tend to listen to the loudest sounds /noise first. Listen to quieter and soft sounds or music/songs that you enjoy.
  4. 2 things you Smell – Differentiate between pleasant and unpleasant smells. Smell the only 2 things that will make you feel relaxed, like perfume in your napkin, your favourite hand lotion or an odour that you want to move away from.
  5. 1 thing you can taste – This is just as easy as popping a mint or gum in your mouth or drinking your plain/flavoured water.

Being able to apply this natural, easy-to-remember remedy for anxiety and being grounded will help interrupt the nervousness and make you feel instantly re-energised and supported.

In conclusion, the 54321 technique is a powerful mindfulness practice that offers significant relief from the anxiety and depression often experienced by women with PCOS. It provides a simple yet effective way to reconnect with the present moment, using our senses to ground ourselves and break free from the grip of anxiety.

Living with PCOS can be challenging, but it’s crucial to remember that you’re not alone in this journey. Finding a support network and seeking guidance from healthcare providers who specialise in PCOS can make a world of difference. While there may not be a definitive cure, there are ways to manage and alleviate the symptoms, allowing you to lead a fulfilling and healthy life.

At GOQii, we believe in holistic well-being, and that includes mental health. If you’ve found this information helpful, we’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Remember, you can explore more articles on topics like these in our Healthy Reads section. For personalised guidance and support on managing PCOS, consider subscribing to GOQii’s Personalised Health Coaching here.

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Disclaimer: The information provided in this blog is for general awareness and educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider for personalised medical guidance or concerns related to your health. Images shown are for representation purposes only and may not depict the exact recommendations or outcomes.

November 21, 2025 By Divya Thampi 1 Comment

Setting Myself Free from Grudges

image 1- divyaHaving arrived half an hour ahead of time, I settled in with my laptop, a bottle of drinking water and adjusted the client’s chair carefully at the right angle. With 5 more minutes to go for the first client to arrive, I made a call to the account manager of the company which had hired my services for this project. The arrangement was that I would visit this client’s premises once every fortnight for a few hours. As I had been travelling for the last few weeks, I was resuming service after a month’s interval, and saying “hello” to the account manager seemed like a good idea. With a smile on my face and a tune on my lips, I dialled his number and waited for the response. After about five rings, I heard his voice say “Hello”. With a widening smile, I asked about his health and went on to update him about my arrival at the client site.

AngerThere was a pause on the other side of the line. Wondering if I had lost him, I checked “are you there?” He confirmed that he was. Then sounding sheepish he told me that there had been an oversight on his part and he had forgotten to update me about a change of schedule. Essentially, he was telling me that I wasn’t supposed to be there that day. My smile faltered and eyebrows knitted together, while my mind tried to make sense of what he said. I could hear him carry on saying that my travel expenses would be reimbursed and that he really was sorry about the mix-up. As the full implication of what he was saying dawned on me, I sensed the blood rush to my face. But, before my protests could leave my lips, he repeated his apology and bid a hurried goodbye.

In a matter of seconds, my breath had quickened, my jaws had clenched and I could feel anger bubbling up within my chest. Thoughts about how unprofessional he had been, how his company was taking me for granted and how his apology didn’t sound sincere, added fuel to the already burning fire.

The thing about being a practicing Emotional Wellness coach is that while you can choose to not practice some of the things you preach about regulating emotions, awareness of the feelings rising and falling within the self, is not something you can completely ignore, even if you wish to. It was almost as if there were two of me. One experiencing the anger and frustration and the other observing the first, calmly. This ‘calm me’ gently pointed out to the ‘upset me’ that just a few weeks back I had promised myself that I would let go of chaotic thoughts and feelings, that had the tendency to drag me down and drain me of vitality. I tried hard to ignore that quieter voice. But it persisted.

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Parallelly, my mind had been busy plotting revenge by considering demanding pay for my lost time, writing detailed emails about unprofessional behaviour of the manager to the top boss and eliciting a sincerer apology from him. Suddenly, the quieter voice in my head took control and drew attention to the ridiculousness of all these plans (a sincerer apology? Really). It occurred to me that the situation couldn’t be reversed. No matter how much I seethed, the schedule was not going to change. Recognizing the futility of holding on to anger towards the manager, helped me consider the choices I had at this moment. I could either go on being upset, telling myself stories about how unfair others had been to me and how I deserved more respect, OR then I could spend this spare time on something more rewarding.

“Every ego confuses opinions and viewpoints with facts. Furthermore, it cannot tell the difference between an event and its reaction to that event. Every ego is a master of selective perception and distorted interpretation. Only through awareness – not through thinking – can you differentiate between fact and opinion. Only through awareness are you able to see: There is the situation and here is the anger I feel about it, and then realize there are other ways of approaching the situation, other ways of seeing and dealing with it. Only through awareness can you see the totality of the situation or person instead of adopting one limited perspective.”–Eckhart Tolle

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As I calmed myself down by slowing down my breathing, an option to view the situation from a different perspective, presented itself – Maybe there had been a genuine and unintended oversight and maybe the manager was truly sorry? I thought about all my past interactions with him and it was evident that he was indeed a sincere person who took his work and responsibilities seriously. I reflected further and was convinced that the oversight couldn’t have been deliberate. ‘He is only human and we all make errors’, I reflected, ‘I have been there too. How would I feel if I made an unintended error and someone tried to rub my nose in it?’ Turning my attention back to me, I studied my own waning anger with more compassion and recognized my emotional patterns that tended to play out on automatic mode whenever my awareness was low. As my empathy towards myself increased, so did my compassion towards the manager. Taking deep breaths, I allowed these calming thoughts to wash over me.

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“As I look back on my life, I realise that every time I thought I was being rejected from something good, I was actually being re-directed to something better.” – Steve Maraboli

As the moments passed I could feel the smile returning to my lips and with a sudden sense of adventure I mentally ran through the many exciting options I had for spending this newfound time, in what had been an especially packed week. I eventually decided to meet a longtime family friend who stayed close by. A quick call confirmed that they would be more than happy to have me over for lunch and with a spring in my step I set out to explore the day!

After a wonderful time with friends and some additional time to catch my breath at home, I felt revitalized for my next assignment that evening. When the day turned to night, I received a text message from the account manager expressing his sincerest apologies and acknowledgement for the frustration I must have experienced during the day. I hastened to let him know that I had been upset for all of 2 minutes. I went on to elaborate that I trusted his sincerity and that I was not upset in the least. Saying this, flooded me with a sense of gratitude and realized that this experience had been a gift; an opportunity to practice letting go.

“One thing we do know: Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness. How do you know that this is the experience you need? Because this is the experience you are having at this moment.” – Eckhart Tolle

It doesn’t come this easy every time. Each time I start to bask in the assumption that I have mastered the art of calming down, yet another episode pops up to remind me of my fallibility. But it is in those very humbling experiences, where I have been beaten by my own resentment and upset feelings that I have learnt the most valuable lessons on setting myself free from my own grudges!

For more on Mental Health, check out Healthy Reads or tune in to Emotional Wellness Expert Divya Thampi’s classes on GOQii Play.

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Disclaimer: The information provided in this blog is for general awareness and educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider for personalised medical guidance or concerns related to your health. Images shown are for representation purposes only and may not depict the exact recommendations or outcomes.

August 1, 2025 By GOQii Leave a Comment

Navigating the Anxiety and ADHD: Daily Struggles, Coping Strategies

If you’re living with ADHD, you’ve likely met its constant companion: anxiety. The two are like old acquaintances, often showing up together in the background of your daily life. ADHD brings its vibrant mix of curiosity and distraction, while anxiety adds a layer of restlessness, self-doubt, and that nagging sense that something might go wrong.

It’s no surprise, really. The unpredictable nature of ADHD – missed deadlines, impulsive decisions, and forgotten appointments—can create a daily rhythm filled with uncertainty. And uncertainty is anxiety’s favourite playground.

But here’s the hopeful part: understanding how ADHD and anxiety interact is half the battle. With the right strategies, support, and a little self-compassion, you can learn to manage both with more confidence.

Why Do ADHD and Anxiety So Often Overlap?

Think of the ADHD brain as one that’s wired for interest-based focus. This means you might find it hard to stick with tasks that don’t feel engaging or urgent. When the demands of a world designed for neurotypical processing start to pile up—misunderstood instructions, forgotten chores, a backlog of emails anxiety naturally creeps in.

You may find yourself constantly worrying about forgetting something crucial. Ruminating over past conversations. Or feeling overwhelmed at the thought of making choices that seem easy for others.

This isn’t a weakness. It’s the experience of a neurodivergent mind navigating a world that isn’t always built for it.

Common Daily Triggers for ADHD-Related Anxiety

For many with ADHD, anxiety doesn’t just come from big life events. It often bubbles up from everyday moments:

  • Feeling overwhelmed by choices, even simple ones.
  • Struggling to start a task because you don’t know where to begin.
  • Having difficulty concentrating at work or school.
  • Fearing you’ve misread social cues or said the wrong thing.
  • Feeling like you’re constantly behind, no matter how hard you try.

These moments can feel isolating, but you are not alone.

Coping Strategies That Work

Managing ADHD and anxiety takes practice and patience, but small, consistent changes can make a vast difference.

  • Establish Simple Routines

Structure can be incredibly calming for an ADHD brain. Start with small morning or evening rituals. Something as simple as making your tea the same way each morning or laying out your clothes the night before can create a reassuring sense of control.

  • Break Down Overwhelming Tasks

Instead of writing “finish report” on your to-do list, break it down into smaller steps: Open laptop, write introduction, outline key points. Clear, actionable steps reduce the feeling of being overwhelmed.

  • Use External Reminders

Don’t rely on your memory alone. Use phone alarms, sticky notes, or visual planners. These external cues can serve as gentle, non-judgmental reminders throughout the day.

  • Practice Mindful Breathing

When you feel anxiety building, just one minute of intentional breathing can help reset your nervous system. Inhale deeply, hold for a moment, and exhale slowly. Repeat.

  • Try Body Doubling

Working on a task alongside someone else (even if they’re working on something different, either in-person or remotely) can significantly improve focus and quiet the mental chatter that fuels anxiety.

  • Practice Self-Compassion

ADHD and anxiety often bring a loud inner critic. Experiment with changing that voice. “I’m doing my best with the tools I have” goes much further than, “Why can’t I just get my act together?”

You Don’t Have to Choose Between Functioning and Feeling Okay

It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking you must push yourself endlessly to manage ADHD, or that anxiety is just something you have to live with.

But the reality is, it’s okay to slow down. It’s okay to ask for help. It’s okay to celebrate the small victories.

You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re navigating a brain that works differently, and it’s okay for things to feel hard sometimes.

When it comes to managing ADHD and anxiety, there is no one-size-fits-all approach. What works for one person might not work for another and that’s okay. The most important thing is to remain curious. Experiment. And treat yourself with the same kindness you would offer to someone you truly love.

Because even though the path may feel tumultuous, it’s yours. And you’re more on track than you realise.

#BeTheForce

Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please consult a doctor for personalised guidance and recommendations related to ADHD.

April 11, 2025 By GOQii Leave a Comment

Spirituality & Social Connection: Nurturing the Soul for Healthy Living

When we talk about healthy living, our minds often go straight to diet and exercise. But true wellbeing runs deeper—it’s not just about nourishing the body, but also the mind and soul. One often-overlooked yet deeply important part of holistic health is spirituality and social connection. These elements bring meaning, comfort, and balance to our lives, helping us thrive—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally too.

Spirituality: A Path to Inner Peace

Spirituality isn’t necessarily about religion. It’s about connecting with something greater than yourself—whatever form that may take.

For some, this might come through quiet reflection, meditation or prayer. For others, it might be felt while walking through nature, listening to music that stirs the soul, reading a powerful book, or even getting lost in a moving film or beautiful artwork.

These moments of awe and stillness help us press pause on the day-to-day stress and reconnect with our inner selves.

Spiritual or reflective practices have been shown to:

  • Reduce stress and anxiety
  • Improve emotional resilience
  • Enhance our sense of meaning and purpose
  • Encourage mindfulness and presence

Forest Bathing: Nature’s Quiet Therapy

A particularly powerful practice that blends spirituality and wellbeing is Forest Bathing—a Japanese tradition called Shinrin-yoku. It simply means immersing yourself in a natural, wooded environment and engaging all your senses.

It’s not about hiking or covering distance—it’s about slowing down. Feel the breeze, notice the rustle of the leaves, breathe in the scent of trees, listen to the birds. Let nature be your therapist.

Forest bathing has been found to:

  • Lower blood pressure
  • Reduce cortisol (stress hormone) levels
  • Improve mood and sleep
  • Increase feelings of vitality

The Power of Social Connection

As human beings, we’re wired for connection. Having strong, supportive relationships is essential—not just for our emotional wellbeing, but also for our physical health.

Spending time with friends and family, having a heart-to-heart, joining a class, or even a warm cuppa and a chat can work wonders. Connection reminds us that we’re not alone—and that’s powerful.

Research shows people with strong social networks are:

  • Less likely to suffer from anxiety and depression
  • More likely to stick with healthy habits
  • Better equipped to manage life’s ups and downs
  • Likely to live longer and feel more fulfilled

Whether it’s five minutes of deep breathing in nature, lighting a candle and journaling, connecting with a loved one, or attending a spiritual gathering—these aren’t luxuries. They’re essential to wellbeing.

True health comes when we balance the physical with the emotional and spiritual. By nourishing our inner world and strengthening our bonds with others, we build resilience, purpose, and joy.

So, take that walk in the woods. Call a friend. Play that song that moves you. Pause and just breathe.

Because a healthy life isn’t just about living longer—it’s about living more fully.

#BeTheForce

Disclaimer: The information provided in this blog is for general awareness and educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider for personalised medical guidance or concerns related to your health.

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