From personal experience, even you might have noticed that most resolutions to join the gym, eat a healthy diet or get proper sleep often go unfulfilled after the first month of the year. While we are often excited to start a diet routine or make exercise a habit, it never works out for long. The enthusiasm wanes and by this time around, there’s barely enough willpower to pull through.
Understanding Willpower
It isn’t completely uncommon to eat healthy for a few days and then go back to indulging in cakes and cookies. Temptations are something that the human mind can seldom control. Temptations of any kind are a good way to test ourselves, especially when trying to follow a strict diet regime.
I often wonder what could come between an individual and their goal that could make it or break it.
When I decided to take up some diet or an exercise routine, I knew the benefits of it. I knew how to do it and what to do as well. Despite all this awareness, something wasn’t right. That triggered a thought in me… I came to realize that my willpower was less!
To achieve a difficult task, one needs tremendous willpower and having the willpower to overcome difficulties in health is paramount!
Most importantly, do not confuse willpower with enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is something that can lead us to start a process, but when the initial excitement dies out, you’re back to square one! “Will” is the desire to make sure you are up to your goal and go through the process wholeheartedly to achieve that goal!
Studies have proven that taking small steps towards a large goal, structured in a sequence, strengthens practical approaches. Once you know how to approach your goal practically, it becomes easier. This, in turn, strengthens willpower. Procrastination can hamper the will. If you know you have got to do something to achieve your goal, just go ahead, work on it and complete the task.
3 Simple Tips to Strengthen Your Willpower:
1. Note Down Your Goal
Write down your thoughts or goals. Making a list helps as a reminder to keep you on track toward your goal. Make sure you write it down where it is easily visible to you. For instance:
- A sticky note on your fridge.
- A note on your office soft board.
- Motivational quotes downloaded on your tab or phone.
2. Meditate For 5 Minutes a Day
- Sit up straight and focus your attention on your breath.
- When your mind wanders, bring your attention back to breathing
You’ll be building willpower by practicing self-awareness. When you are aware of what you are doing, you’re engaging the part of your brain responsible for willpower. Meditation not only helps you focus but also strengthens self-control. As a bonus, deep, slow breathing calms the mind and improves mental clarity.
3. Get Enough Sleep
As you know, adults need 7-8 hours of sleep daily, teens need at least 9, and kids in elementary and middle school require 10-12 hours. Sleep deprivation makes us susceptible to temptations and pulls us away from our goals. Self-control requires loats of brain power, and when we are tired, our body doesn’t deliver enough glucose to the brain to get the willpower engine going.
In conclusion, remind yourself of what you really want rather than what you think you should want. Ask yourself frequently – “How do I want to feel?” Then visualize what you will lose if you give in to temptation.
We hope this article helps you build willpower and stick to your health and life goals! If you find any difficulty or need motivation to push through, our GOQii Coaches would be more than happy to help you out! You can get in touch with a GOQii Coach for guidance by subscribing for Personalised Health Coaching here.
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Disclaimer: The information provided in this blog is for general awareness and educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider for personalised medical guidance or concerns related to your health.
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2. Celebrate Small Wins
5. The Last Stretch
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Make sure that you give yourself an undistracted 30 minutes to read through and reflect on these questions because this could change the way you see yourself and your life ahead. Adapted from Dr. Demartini’s methodology, following are the five questions:
